Tonight my 18-year-old was telling a friend over xBox live that he has a date Saturday night.
My other son, aged seven, was listening in.
“You have a date?”
“Yeah.”
“You have a date Saturday night with a girl?”
“Yeah.”
Seven-year-old: “Seems icky.”
Eighteen-year-old: “Wait a few years.”
My son got a job today.
No, he hasn’t graduated college (yet). He’s only a freshman. He got a job for this semester break while he’s home from college.
This continues a fine family tradition: that you should always be working, and if not two jobs of some sort, then one extra-long, extra-hard one.
My father owned his own business, which of course left him plenty of time to… start another business.
My brother-in-law works full-time for the township. While, of course, running his own business.
My brother owned one business, hired me when I was a teenager to help him start another one, and ran both for a while. (Eventually, he sold that first one.)
What did my two nieces do when they came home from college on winter break? Get jobs. Then go back to college.
In one form or another, I’ve run a business since I was 11. My first business was selling comic-books through the mail. At the same time, I was sending things off to magazines to get printed. (Well, actually, to get rejected.) Eventually, I got better at both; at least, I like to think so. Now I run my company, I write and direct, and I teach. How many jobs is that? Or, given the advent of technology that makes work ever available, perhaps we should consider that we’re at a stage where we should stop thinking in terms of “jobs” and start thinking about effort — and which efforts pay, and which don’t. (It’s worth noting that efficiency expert David Allen doesn’t distinguish between things that are “work” or “fun” — each is still a time commitment that must be checked off.)
So now my son, who will be here only through mid-January before heading back to college, has gotten a job canvassing for a group that fundraises for AIDS Project LA. Although it’s not his first job, it was his first job interview, and he nailed it. He should be proud; I know I am. His first job was with my company, Counterintuity, where he worked for a year. No, it wasn’t pure nepotism; first, he volunteered here at our client open house, then when he said he’d like to work here, I made him go see my partner and apply. She decided to hire him, and I don’t think she regretted it later. (Or I would have been sure to tell him.) So I guess that’s two job interviews of sorts that he nailed. Good for him, because there will be more in his future. And probably a business or two as well.
I wish I could see this production in New York, which promises much sweet sorrow: a production of “Romeo and Juliet” — cobbled together from people’s (false) recollections of how the play goes.
If it’s true that “War is Over (If You Want It),” then surely “Recession is Over (If You Want It),” because wars are hard to end. Either that, or John and Yoko were wrong, and we have to get that song off the radio because it is seriously misleading people — just like all the love songs do.
I’ve written here often about my friend Trey Nichols, a man of talent and taste whose plays excite me and whose insights amuse me.
Recently Trey, who is also an actor and whom I’ve had the great pleasure of directing, did a short film. (He also did an Irish accent, which took me back to the time we did a play about someone talking someone else into blowing himself up.) This runs about 10 minutes. Here it is.
A few days ago I turned over the keys to my beloved red 2007 Ford Mustang. Its time had come: The lease was up. In its place in front of my house now sits a blue BMW 135i convertible. Yes, I was tempted to get another Mustang convertible, which would have been my fourth, and was even considering getting a third red one in a row, and debated whether doing so would signal a complete lack of originality, or a complete command of originality, because after all, who would get the same model car in the same color, three cars in a row? But I snapped back to reality when I realized that none of that mattered, that what mattered were things like features and price.
I was fine with the features on the old car. The features on the new car are comprehensive and frequently inexplicable. Because the car is linked via Bluetooth with my iPhone, if someone calls my cellphone while I’m driving, the sound system immediately switches over to the sound of a ringing phone, which I can answer (or not) from my steering wheel. That’s easy enough. But until someone who works for me figured out the correct way to place an outgoing call, every call I tried to make meant first calling home and hanging up. Given that my wife sleeps during the day, this can’t have been amusing. The first time I refilled the car with gas, I couldn’t figure out how to open the gas tank door. There are also three soft rubberized buttons that line the bottom of the rearview mirror, and I have no idea what these do. I’ve pressed them numerous times with no discernible effect, but for all I know, I’m activating landmines in Bavaria. In an effort to resolve these and other riddles, I was recently reduced to reading owner’s manual; even writing here that I read the owner’s manual seems a shameful admission, but I did. And I still can’t figure out half the features.
If it seems I’m complaining about the car, I’m not. I actually love the car. I love the 459 electric seat adjustments, and I am confident that by the end of this lease, I will have that seat perfectly adjusted. (I make a little progress every day.) No, what I’m complaining about is yet another indication of my own future shock; first I couldn’t figure out advancements in video games (I think it was “Donky Kong Country” that left me behind), then I couldn’t make a web page (this site in its current design is testament to that), and now I can’t properly drive my car. Prepare the wheelchair, tartan blanket, and grassy hillside behind the rest home.
The only feature I actually don’t care for is the one that has me thinking there’s a bit of overkill going on in automobile advancement. The first few times I took the car out, whenever I was backing up it seemed there was something happening in my peripheral vision. I’d start to back up, then jerk to a stop because something was moving over there on the right and I didn’t want to hit it. By the third time, I realized what it was: the passenger side mirror. The car does many things for itself, not least of which is decode the approximate amount of ambient light and conclude whether or not it should put its own headlights on. Never mind that I’ve been putting the headlights on — or not — for myself for three decades with no problem. It seems it does a similar thing for the passenger side mirror when engaged in reverse: It swivels that mirror down to give you a “better” look at what might be there for when you’re backing up. Only problem: My human brain, being engineered to react to movement, sees the movement and instructs my brain to stamp down on the brake. How I ever reversed the previous thirty years without this technological advance I don’t know, but I do wonder if there’s some way to disable it. (Which will necessitate another look at that Tolstoyan owner’s manual.)
I should also add that the car has sonar.
That it has some sort of James Bond tires that you can continue to drive on after a puncture, and that that mitigates the need for a spare.
That you can program the seats to automatically readjust to different people’s preferred settings via their electronic keys.
And that the front seats have leg extenders, or a shortened version of the footrest that comes up on a La-Z-Boy.
This is the sporty BMW convertible that still has a back seat (which I need so that I can occasionally transport children — mine). This isn’t the top of the line “touring sedan” 7-series BMW. I wonder if that model has a jacuzzi, a raw bar, and photon torpedoes.
My friend Mike Folie notified me that this is going on:
Clever Scam – taking advantage of older men, or any other men, as well
Women often receive warnings about protecting themselves at the mall and in dark parking lots, etc. This is the first warning I have seen for men. I wanted to pass it on in case you haven’t heard about it. This will only become more commonplace as the weather warms.
A ‘heads up’ for those men who may be regular Lowe’s, Home Depot, or Costco customers. This one caught me by surprise.
Over the last month I became a victim of a clever scam while out shopping. Simply going out to get supplies has turned out to be quite traumatic. Don’t be naive enough to think it couldn’t happen to you or your friends.
Here’s how the scam works:
Two seriously good-looking 20-something girls come over to your car as you are packing your shopping into the trunk. They both start wiping your windshield with a rag and Windex, with very suggestive, skimpy T-shirts. It is impossible not to look. When you thank them and offer them a tip, they say ‘No’ and instead ask you for a ride to McDonalds.
You agree and they get into the back seat. On the way, they start playfully undressing. Then one of them climbs over into the front seat and starts crawling all over you, while the other one steals your wallet. I had my wallet stolen October 4th, 9th, 10th, twice on the 15th, 17th, 20th and 29th. Also November 1st and 2nd, twice on the 3rd, three times last Monday and very likely again this upcoming weekend.
So tell your friends to be careful. What a horrible way to take advantage of older men.
Please Warn your friends to be vigilant.
Wal-Mart has wallets on sale for $2.99 each. I found cheaper ones for $1.99 at K- Mart and bought them out. Also, you never will get to eat at McDonalds. I’m looking into bulk orders at CostCo and will let you know what I find.
I have looked everywhere for these girls so that I can admonish them in person, but no luck so far.
Still, I will be on the lookout and I appreciate being made aware of this scam.
In addition to being a place where one famous person who is the son of another famous person coincidentally attends the holiday party of a third famous person you admire, LA is also a place where everyone is a filmmaker, artist, comedian, weirdo, or combination of all four.
